Do you sometimes get overwhelmed and immediately go into the “my life is a mess” dance because one area of your life is not working out as well as you planned?
We often see our lives as a house of cards, when one thing is out of place you think everything is going to crash down around you. The moment you start to think like that that the discord starts to spread, and before you know it you have infected other areas of your life that were doing great.
Once you realize that you have initiated an emotional snowball effect, you have to make the conscious decision to take a step back and look at the details around you.
Gaining clarity about your life using the Law of Correspondence and a Feng Shui Bagua is a simple system you can use as a reality check for your emotions and really figure out what is going on in your life.
What is the Universal Law of Correspondence?
The Universal Law of Correspondence, “As within as without.” The law states that your outer world is a reflection of your inner world. Your surroundings are showing you a mirror image of how you feel and what you are thinking. You can easily test this law by looking around you, if you feel disorganized and stressed out, your environment is usually cluttered, and disorganized too. When you are clear minded, have a clear idea of what is going on in your life, your home, office desk, purse and all are organized, you know exactly where things are.
The Bagua Template
The Bagua Template is based on the Feng Shui Bagua compass, the template is a map divided in to 9 sections that represent a specific area of life. You lay the map over the floor plan of your home or space you want to work on to find out which part of your home correlates an area of your life. Areas on a Bagua template include: career, knowledge and skills, family, relations and more.
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Self-Help Toolbox Item: Using the Abraham-Hicks Emotional Guidance Scale.
After a day spent doing #25 instead of AB&C (as in I was nowhere near where I wanted to be). Spent the night passed out on the sofa watching Elementary (show about Sherlock Holmes) instead of my sure-fire, nighttime prep for amazing sleep and having the Universe do my bidding as I slept. I of course woke up this morning feeling like crap.
I tried, music, it helped a little. I did some meditation, which helped a lot (but that happened only because I had assigned that task to my Manager (one of the Abraham-Hicks 22 Processes) and I magically woke up and meditated this morning). I had a nice breakfast in a lovely setting looking at the world go by outside. That felt good but did not help. Nothing was really getting to the bottom of the shift in my emotions to the dark side. I had just experienced five consecutive days of glorious bliss and I was not going to let a random funk derail my joy.
I decided to reach into my Self-Help Toolbox, to find something that would help me out of the funk. I went for my fail-safe “Fix-my-negative-emotion-right-now” tool, the Abraham-Hicks Emotional Guidance Scale. Continue reading →
Let him take care of you. This one is for the ladies, and maybe a reminder for me.
Ladies, we know we can do it all, okay, maybe most of it. It came to me this weekend looking at the couples around me, that strong women (all women, we are all strong and you know it) need to know that it is absolutely okay to allow a man to truly love you and want to take care of you. It is okay.
I met a new husband at the party (this weekend) that has assimilated completely into his wife’s family and culture that I asked more than two people where the heck he was from, and to whom he was related. Thinking of the couple made me think of my friends who are looking for the superhot, easy burn out romance (Oh! to be young again and remake those decisions), and turn away from the slow delicious simmer of “Mr. Right for you”. Okay I have more than one amazing slow simmer couple in mind but you get the gist.
Years ago, I remember talking to a friend, who felt affronted whenever a man tried to open the door for her, I was like, LET HIM!I want us to take a heart defibrillator to that dying horse called Chivalry and resuscitate that darling beautiful creature. Continue reading →
I know the concept of becoming your Best Self is nothing new, but I want to share an idea that “I came up with” after I had spent a year and a half looking at an image of someone I aspired to be, to look like, to feel like, move around the world like.
My inspiration picture was the shot of the person I was going to become when all the stars lined up and my life was the vision of perfection that I had in my head. I would look at the photograph of this woman who I adored and wondered how she really felt, who was in her life, and then I answered all those questions inserting myself into the picture. Before I go further, I don’t know who this woman is, because my picture was an illustration I found on Pinterest. This was perfect because I am somewhat obsessed with animation and illustration.
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Finding Mr. Right is possible, he is not the myth we were all led to think he was. Some ladies believe they will find the sasquatch (abominable snowman for those girlies that are less Scifi than most) before they come across Mr. Right.
Well, let us squash that myth right now. If the Universal Laws are as constant as the laws of physics then Mr. Right is right there waiting for you. He is somewhere in your Wish Vortex just waiting to you to get on his Frequency.
Finding Mr. Right should become a Mind over Matter subject, if you believe you will find Mr. Right, then you will. Look around you I am sure you can find someone who is rocking a Mr. Right on her arm right now. And what do I always say? “If one person can do it so can you, you just have to want it good enough.” Continue reading →
How to Manifest a Clutter-Free Home Thoughts are things, so if you constantly worry about picking up that clutter that has been bugging you forever, it multiplies.
Here is an example of a technique I use to change certain persistent issues in my life. It is called Change your Thought, Change your Life. When I am not feeling my best about a thing or aspect of my life or I am feeling stressed out or blocked on an issue, and I am ready, I mean ready to break out of that merry-go-round of misery.
Here is the super technique I used to finally rid myself of the constant manifesting of clutter in my bedroom. Continue reading →