Finding Mr. Right is possible, he is not the myth we were all led to think he was. Some ladies believe they will find the sasquatch (abominable snowman for those girlies that are less Scifi than most) before they come across Mr. Right.
Well, let us squash that myth right now. If the Universal Laws are as constant as the laws of physics then Mr. Right is right there waiting for you. He is somewhere in your Wish Vortex just waiting to you to get on his Frequency.
Finding Mr. Right the Mind Game
Finding Mr. Right should become a Mind over Matter subject, if you believe you will find Mr. Right, then you will. Look around you I am sure you can find someone who is rocking a Mr. Right on her arm right now. And what do I always say? “If one person can do it so can you, you just have to want it good enough.”
You hear this a lot and it is true, you have got to change the way you think to change your life, so yes, it is important to cultivate a Success Mindset
What is a Success Mindset?
Unlock your ability to manifest the life you desire by developing a success mindset. Your dreams, goals and wants will no longer be things you think of as outside your dreams if you can just make a few tweaks to the way you use your mind.
Developing the success mindset is the answer to getting what you want and living the life of your dreams today. Why wait for some point in the future, when you can start living like you truly want to live today?
Change your Self-Limiting Beliefs
Review your beliefs and change the ones that aren’t working for you. You have to know what you are saying to yourself in your head. If you constantly berate yourself and affirm your lack of success by worrying, replaying past failure and all those other self-limiting things we do unconsciously, you will remain where you are.
The magic you create with an Attitude of Gratitude will amaze you every moment you notice the changes in your day because you took two minutes to find five things to be grateful for today. With our hectic lifestyles, you have to learn to take control of how you are feeling in each moment. That is what living eternal vigilance is all about.
Choose to adopt an attitude of gratitude, and take control of your emotions by stopping when you feel yourself tighten with stress, and remember the things you are grateful for today.
Conditions: Stress, worry, anger, fear, and all other horrible feelings you could have
Self-Help Tool: Gratitude
Prescription: First thing in the morning before getting out of bed and any other time of the day you feel yourself deep into the negative. Last thing you do at night as you fall asleep. Start a gratitude journal.
What is an attitude of gratitude?
We all have things that we are grateful for in our lives. An attitude of gratitude means living in a state where you focus on what you are thankful for at this moment, and in each moment you are conscious of your thought space (i.e., what you are thinking). With an attitude of gratitude, you are developing a mindset for success.
Living with an attitude of gratitude you are choosing to focus on what you grateful for in order to keep your emotional frequency on the positive side of the scale, shift your emotions from positive to negative or most importantly, keep yourself on the frequency you need to manifest the things you want.
A surefire way to change your mood now. Why not feel better now, there is no need to linger in negativity. Feel Better Now.
We all have moments in our lives when a dark cloud dumps a feeling of total helplessness on you and you feel that everything, every effort you have ever put into anything has been for nothing.
You could be experiencing the crushing sensation of supreme sadness, depression, helplessness, fear, loss, loneliness, and powerlessness. What a list, by the time you get to the word fear, you are starting to think the sun will never shine again. However, you will be quite wrong.
How to Feel Better Now.
Acknowledge that you are feeling like crap at this moment. You know it, and so does everyone around you, so excuse yourself, remind yourself that it is just a wave to ride out, and do the following:
Have a Good Cry
Have a good cry, my favorite is in the shower Sob it out. Cry. Woe is you. Why? Because that is how you are going to feel right now. Put on some super sobby (yes, I said “Sobby”) spa music, pop in the shower, and let your hot tears mingle with the hot, hot, water. You will remember to think about your blessings and things you are grateful for when you are done feeling sorry for yourself, but right now baby, SOB IT Out.