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Being Successfully
Single Until the Right One Comes Along!
Robert Johansson
Our planet is
brimming with a random lottery of people; undeniably though, finding
true love can be considered a risky business. Love is supposed to be a
beautiful feeling with lots of happy thoughts emanating from the whole
package of being in love, so why is finding true love is considered a
difficult challenge?
Is finding love
really so hard though? Or do we just make it hard? Finding love is not
hard, but sometimes it takes a long time. So if you are single now, and
I assume that you are, then you are likely going to be single for
awhile.
Here are some
advantages of being single:
1. You are
independent Basically you can do what you want when you want. You don't
have to wait, you don't have to ask, you can just go.
2. You have more
time When you're single; you don't have to sit around doing nothing.
Want to go to the gym? Want to join the hiking club? Play an
instrument? How about watch your favorite video for 10th time? Want to
take a course? Learn a new hobby? Who's stopping you?
3. You don't have
to deal with another's personal habits You can sleep without listening
to someone's snoring and hog all the blankets all the time and nobody
cares. You don't have to pick up after anyone but yourself. And you
don't even have to pick up after yourself if you don't want to. Give
your patience a well-deserved break.
4. You can be
spontaneous Be daring! Do what you want when you want to and who cares
if you don't get to dinner until midnight? Do something out of the
ordinary, without having to get permission first or calling ahead. This
is freedom!
5. You can focus
on your career You can channel your energy into your work. Without a
relationship, you have a lot more time. Put in those extra hours and
impress your boss, or take on new projects.
6. You are your
own boss Relationships need compromise and you don't always get your own
way. Both people in a relationship have to give something up for the
greater good of the relationship. Do what you want and treat yourself
more. Selfishness is good for the soul (in small doses).
Don't stress!
That special someone is out there and you can and will find them. It
just takes time.
In the meantime,
enjoy being single. In fact, I believe that if you can't be happy being
single, you will never be happy with your soul mate! Kind of like rich
and poor. There are lots of poor people who are happy and lots that are
unhappy. Same with rich people -- lots are happy and lots are unhappy.
Now what do you think would happen if we took a poor who was unhappy,
and gave them lots of money?
You guessed it!
They would probably be happy for a short time, but it wouldn't last and
eventually they would be just as unhappy as they were.
Ever wonder why
that is? Being happy comes from inside of you not outside. OK, you are
single -- enjoy yourself and that special person will come along before
you know it!
I hope that you
have found this article useful in your search. If you would like to
more about finding your soul mate, please visit my website Soul mate
Secrets.
Robert
Johansson is a Psychologist and Author living in British Columbia. He
has published Ebooks and articles on psychology, singles, relationships
and Popular Culture. Visit his website, Secrets for finding your soul
mate for advice, tips and resources for singles, and finding that
special someone.
soulmate-secrets.com
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