Apr
10
2008
Note from the Author:
These series of blogs came about during a period when I knew I was changing, into what or whom I could not say when I started but this was one of the processes I went through when dealing with the change. Please enjoy and I hope it helps you find your way through this journey called life.
I found an 18 year old journal entry, yes, I was a child when I wrote it, but much to my dismay some of the entries seemed like something I could have written yesterday. I walked away too scared to admit the realization that I may still be the person I was when I made that journal entry. It took me four weeks of denial and trying to come up with some evidence to prove this realization wrong before I could look at those pages again.
Each week I seem to come up with a new theory on how face myself and face the true in the possibility that I had not changed in 18 years, or that I had changed and didn’t know into what. My journey was not to discover something earth shattering or new ways to split the atom, my journey was to find a way to soften to blow. I am sharing with you the results of my journey, in the hopes that if you are also on a quest to seek the truth about yourself or searching for proof that you have changed in some way, that this would help you on your journey.
The True Core Theory Continue Reading »
Apr
01
2008
After a year away, far, far away, I find myself back to what I am proud to call my “True Calling”. Oh! The things I am going to tell you about finding your true calling, finding your true life’s goals, getting a purpose in life, living eternally valiant and FOLLOWING THROUGH on everything you set your mind to.
During my time in far, far away land, I have learned and relearned a whole lot, I have grown, matured, experienced and I am ready to share, Why? If we were not meant to share like this, the internet and Blogs would never have been created, right?
I am in the process of ending another chapter in my life and coming into a newer happier state of being, so “Change” is going to be a big theme this month, so will finding your true self because I have finally figure it out it all starts with KNOW THYSELF.
Cheers,
PS
I would say welcome back but I am the one who has been away.
Tabs
May
18
2007
Friends come and go, but with a precious few you should hold on to… because the older you get the more you need the people who knew you when you were young. – Mary Schmich
The importance of friends is never more evident than when you lose them. My life and experiences have taught me to hold on to the “Precious” few. Why precious few? Because in life you need to know that there are people out there that have your back, people you can count on no matter what. It is a pretty lonely life without such friends but life is such that you meet and make new friends everyday. It is up to you to weed out the friends that make you feel less than yourself, the friends you don’t trust to be there for you and so on, they are the friends that come and go. It is also up to you to take care of the “Precious Few”, the same way you expect them to take care of You.
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May
05
2007
...Being kind to myself. If that were a friend talking to me with that nasty voice saying that I wasn’t good enough, I wasn’t skinny enough, I wasn’t beautiful enough, I wouldn’t be a friend to that person. Mariel Hemingway – speaking about negative self-talk.
What are you saying to yourself?
Take a couple of days (no more than two or else you will need quick tips for procrastination) to pay attention to what you are thinking about when it comes to your finances, your career or job, your friends, family, coworkers and strangers you meet. Write down exactly what you think of. Try not to focus on the obvious, yes, you love some of these people but what do you truly say about then in your head.
Are these the types of people, situations and surroundings you want in your life? If not then it is time to attract what you want in your life. Take the list you have just created and change your negative, self-defeating thoughts to positive, self-affirming and empowering thoughts. Continue Reading »
Apr
19
2007
In the spirit of Financial Literacy Month, I thought I should share this interesting blog from Ririan Project aptly named 22 Useless Myths That Can Cost You Money. Though the myths may be useless the insight provided in response to each myth is priceless. Even if you don’t agree with me, at least reading the myths will trigger thoughts you may have with regards to the 22 money myths. Continue Reading »
Apr
13
2007
It has been a long journey but I believe I have finally gotten all the lessons I need on forgiveness. The realization came to me today while reading a paragraph in the book Chakra Balancing
by Anodea Judith, the paragraph summarizes everything I have spent a long, long trying to understand and say about how to forgive, why you forgive, when to forgive and how to move on with your life.
If you are reading this blog because you have someone you know you need to forgive this paragraph gives you all you need to know in a nut shell. If you need more I have included links to the copious information I have gathered on forgiveness in this blog.
Here is an excerpt on forgiveness from Chakra Balancing Kit: A Guide to Healing and Awakening Your Energy Body: Continue Reading »
Apr
12
2007
This is part of a series of blogs on Universal Laws that I am writing with the same overall theme, a round table or a dinner conversation in my case with a few of my favorite authors.
The Universal Law of Subconscious Activity as defined by my favorite authors and me, please enjoy.
Charles F. Haanel The Master Key System
The subconscious mind is a part of the Universal mind. The Universal is the creative principle of the Universe, a part must be the same in kind and quality as the whole. This means that this creative power is absolutely Continue Reading »
Apr
12
2007
This law deals directly with your ability to control your subconscious mind. The subconscious mind cannot make a distinction between what is true or what is false, it simple does what it is told to do by the conscious mind. This is where the law of substitution comes to play, the law states that you can substitute any negative thought for a positive one in order to create a positive outcome for yourself.
Since the subconscious mind that creates our lives can not tell the difference between what is true and what is false you can change your reality by changing your thoughts. The law of substitution can be used to change your mood, I know that most people are subject to mood swings and most are aware of the mood change when it is happening, you can use the law of substitution to turn that mood around. I have found that when I feel my mood changing to one I find less desirable I am able to make the change just by repeating to the following words to myself: I am happy, I am happy, I am happy. After multiple use of this affirmation, I have found that I am able to change my mood almost instantly. Continue Reading »
Apr
07
2007
We are not taught that we have the power to create the best lives for ourselves, a large percentage of people do not even know they have this power. It is present in every human being, some have the good luck of tapping into this power without knowing they are using it, you see this in confident successful people, even children. However, for most people the Mind Power is unchecked, uncontrolled and allowed to drag you wherever your random thoughts will take you.
“It is said that a person has over 60,000 thoughts every day. That’s over forty thoughts a minute! Yet, of the 60,000 thoughts you have today, ninety percent of these are the same as the 60,000 you had yesterday and the day before, leaving little room for new thoughts. No wonder life can seem tedious at times.” - Roger Ellerton
The Uncontrolled Mind
A misguided life is the result of the uncontrolled mind. The following are the parties involved in creating the life you live today:
You
• You have a lifetimes worth of experiences, thoughts and emotions you have let flow though your mind uncontrolled. Continue Reading »
